Wedding Perspectives by Kit Chan

I’ve spent years working closely with couples and seeing how weddings actually unfold. Along the way, I’ve come to question some of the assumptions we make about weddings and traditions. This is where I share my observations, challenge familiar ways of thinking, and explore what could be done differently. These are my perspectives, shaped by experience, curiosity, and a willingness to rethink what we take for granted.

Editorial illustration of a bride walking alone down the aisle at an outdoor wedding ceremony.

A Bride Walked Down the Aisle Alone. Her Parents Had Questions.

When a bride chose to walk down the aisle alone, her parents had questions. A real wedding rehearsal reveals how family expectations and good intentions can shape the meaning of a simple decision.

3 hours ago5 min read

Couple having an intimate outdoor elopement ceremony under umbrellas on a rainy day in Vancouver.

What If It Rains or Snows? Rethinking Winter Weddings in Vancouver

Rain, snow, cold and shorter daylight can complicate an intimate Vancouver winter wedding. Kit Chan reflects on uncertainty, meaningful choices and simpler ways to celebrate.

2 days ago5 min read